Would you like to know the secrets to making a guy fall in love? Do you know that men typically put women they are involved with into one of two categories? Are you wondering which category you fall into? If you want to know what makes a guy fall in love, you have to first learn how men view women.

So what are the two categories that most men have for the women in their lives?

The first category is the casual "she's okay for now" category. And the second category is the serious relationship material category. Which category would you like to be in? Do you know how to stay out of the casual category? Would you like to always be considered relationship material by the men you come in contact with?

If you want to stay out of the casual category, you must prevent the relationship from getting too physical too fast. Yes, men are visual creatures and sex appeal is definitely part of the equation when it comes to attracting men. However, for a man physical intimacy does not equal a relationship. Many women make the mistake of believing that if a man is interested in being intimate with them, that means he's interested in a serious relationship. Unfortunately this just isn't true. And while it may seem unfair, men will quickly throw you into the casual category if you are too quick to become sexually involved. Do don't ever allow yourself to get involved in a friends with benefits situation thinking that this will eventually bring the two of your closer in an emotionally committed relationship. It rarely, if ever, works out that way. Sex alone will never make a man fall in love. Save yourself the heartache and disappointment by letting a man know early on that you require a commitment before you will become sexually involved with him. If he's interested in a long term relationship, he won't mind the wait.

A women who can be sexy without becoming sexual instantly moves to the serious relationship category in his mind. Why? Because you have placed yourself in that category. Think about that for a minute. He didn't put you in that category, you put yourself there by demonstrating that you are a unique and selective woman. Because you've set your own standards very high, he will be instantly attracted and drawn in. Most likely, he will pursue you relentlessly and do everything in his power to prove that he is worthy of you. This is an amazing and empowering place to be as a woman.

Even though society sends a lot of messages about men, women, and sex, you don't have to listen to them. Listen to your gut and your instincts. Deep down you know that it takes more than sex to make a man fall in love. Don't try to take a short cut thinking and hoping that it will work itself out. Take control and show every man that you encounter that you simply are not fling material.